I simply love

I love, because my love is not dependent on the object of love.
My love is dependent on my state of being.
So whether the other person changes,
Becomes different, friend turns into a foe, does not matter,
Because my love was never dependent on the other person
My love is my state of being.
I simply love
Osho ~

                  Sometimes I wonder why I am becoming over confident and treat all as if my own near and dear, I don't know.Many a times I have to gather pains for my extra caring nature. It may be a fault with me that I see love in every eyes those depend on me to see the world with my eyes.I respect this love and hug them with best wishes from my heart for their bright  future.By doing that indirectly I receive negativity by pushing positive energy within them.
                In many cases my action misunderstood by some.In many cases although I know the person in front of me is not liking me and only keeping relation with me for their own benefit or circumstances,I behave as if I don't know, what is in their mind.

           My love for all as if makes me an ignorant, I love them without any expectation .We are born in this world for noble purpose and its the Love of Thy God which nurtures us to live. The Love which is equal to all as parents love their child.But love by any human being is always misunderstood in many cases. Knowing that fact, why I love and care others ? Answer to this why is not in google.
         An oncologist know very well that the patient whom treatment given for cancer may not live long so caring is most necessary to give consolation and in some cases daunt.With the knowledge astrology when I see that person is not getting love and care and his/her future is not so smooth I take utmost care to give him/her the confidence to live in the present with an energetic way and think positive so that in future they may get positive effect by producing positive energy. If I will tell them all these things they may not believe because in astrology . Every astrologer differs with the result.
                As an experienced person I know what is right and what is wrong but its not possible to show any result (proof) like of X-Ray,MRI,CT Scan or Ultra-Sonogram that this or that is there in future.May be that makes me sympathetic to take extra care which is not accepted by some, cause now a days no one do any thing without any expectation,and love is one kind of drama in many case.

            This perception is quite impossible to eradicate from the mind of persons those who keep relation with others with expectation. Any way now I am in the last part of my life and waiting for the retirement notice by Thy Almighty till that period I have to make me strong enough to be aloof from all relations and attachments. I have to be a silent on looker only, without passing any judgement.Thats the only alternate way to think about Thy Lord always, unless one day when the last call will come I will be busy in caring others those who will never show their gratitude for what they got.
 

Karmic Relationships

 Whenever we have a connection with another person, I believe that the connection is karmic. Some are very significant, like parents, children and marriage partners. Others are close, like good friends, but perhaps not central. And others are on the periphery of our lives, though no less important.
The karma we share has brought us together again. What is karma? The question is: what type of karma? Perhaps we have a conflict or obligation to work out. Or perhaps we shared a loving – or even tragic – experience.
All the relationships we enter into  are karmic. By initiating a relationship, we set in motion a soul contact with that soul to learn a lesson and resolve an issue from a previous life. A soul mate represents a karmic relationship that we have  resolved: a deep conflict that has been settled, an obligation that has been fulfilled,and love that has replaced fear and anger.
How does karma in relationships work?
Karma isn't a punishing force. It's a balancing force. What is karma? Here's an example. I had a client who fell in love while attending college. She was completely besotted  with a young man...and he broke her heart. Left her, with little explanation. Theirs  was a karmic relationship, with karma to work out,though she didn't see it this way  for many years.
Years later... he got in touch and wanted her back. He appeared sincere. She was  confused, angry and scared: he had hurt her deeply. She wasn't sure if she should trust him. Her chart showed that in a past life reincarnation story, she had been commitment phobic, and she had left him without explanation. To balance their karma,she needed to experience what that was like: and then forgive him. Shifting her perspective helped her to forgive him, and slowly explore where they were. Today, they are married with two beautiful children.
Not every karma story is so crystal clear. Most have many layers and they may even take a while to figure out. However, staying open to this idea that all of our relationships are karmic holds incredible richness... if we choose to look at it that way.And every step we take ‘up’  is not only good for our karma, it's good love advice, too.
By understanding the karma of previous life  and sacrificing some loved persons by deeds for their good is although painful and heart breaking , a soul with realisation of the fact tolerates all pain like a person paying dues to a money lander and  begging and staying without food. But in many cases you have to keep silence if misunderstood by the person for whom you did any karma for his/her good. Because the rule is - "Jo daan dete hain wo gain aur loss ka hisab nahin karate."

"The person who cares with out any expectation is always misundrstood." 

"Although it is Sad but fact of life."