Whenever we have a connection with another person, I believe that the connection is karmic. Some are very significant, like parents, children and marriage partners. Others are close, like good friends, but perhaps not central. And others are on the periphery of our lives, though no less important.
The karma we share has brought us together again. What is karma? The question is: what type of karma? Perhaps we have a conflict or obligation to work out. Or perhaps we shared a loving – or even tragic – experience.
All the relationships we enter into are karmic. By initiating a relationship, we set in motion a soul contact with that soul to learn a lesson and resolve an issue from a previous life. A soul mate represents a karmic relationship that we have resolved: a deep conflict that has been settled, an obligation that has been fulfilled,and love that has replaced fear and anger.
How does karma in relationships work?
Karma isn't a punishing force. It's a balancing force. What is karma? Here's an example. I had a client who fell in love while attending college. She was completely besotted with a young man...and he broke her heart. Left her, with little explanation. Theirs was a karmic relationship, with karma to work out,though she didn't see it this way for many years.
Years later... he got in touch and wanted her back. He appeared sincere. She was confused, angry and scared: he had hurt her deeply. She wasn't sure if she should trust him. Her chart showed that in a past life reincarnation story, she had been commitment phobic, and she had left him without explanation. To balance their karma,she needed to experience what that was like: and then forgive him. Shifting her perspective helped her to forgive him, and slowly explore where they were. Today, they are married with two beautiful children.
Not every karma story is so crystal clear. Most have many layers and they may even take a while to figure out. However, staying open to this idea that all of our relationships are karmic holds incredible richness... if we choose to look at it that way.And every step we take ‘up’ is not only good for our karma, it's good love advice, too.
By understanding the karma of previous life and sacrificing some loved persons by deeds for their good is although painful and heart breaking , a soul with realisation of the fact tolerates all pain like a person paying dues to a money lander and begging and staying without food. But in many cases you have to keep silence if misunderstood by the person for whom you did any karma for his/her good. Because the rule is - "Jo daan dete hain wo gain aur loss ka hisab nahin karate."
"The person who cares with out any expectation is always misundrstood."
"Although it is Sad but fact of life."
